Making the move abroad can be one of the most rewarding decisions of your life. Whether you’re relocating for work, family, or a fresh start, living overseas offers new experiences, perspectives, and growth.
But let’s be real: not everything goes as planned.
At CM Relocation, we’ve helped countless expats transition to life in a new country and we’ve heard it all. From the “I wish I packed more…” to “No one warned me about…” moments, we’ve gathered the top 10 things expats wish they knew before making the big move.
If you’re planning an international relocation, consider this your shortcut to a smoother, more prepared journey.
1. Culture Shock Is Real And It’s Not Always Immediate
Many expats start their journey in the “honeymoon phase”—everything feels exciting and new. But once the novelty wears off, daily challenges and unfamiliar customs can lead to frustration or emotional fatigue.
What expats wish they knew:
That it’s normal to feel overwhelmed, homesick, or even frustrated. Cultural adjustment takes time and comes in phases—don’t panic when the high wears off.
✔️ Tip: Do your research, stay open-minded, and give yourself grace as you adapt.
2. Language Barriers Can Affect Everyday Tasks
Even in English-speaking countries, different accents, phrases, and local expressions can be confusing. In non-English speaking countries, even grocery shopping or asking for directions can become an adventure.
What expats wish they knew:
How helpful it is to learn basic phrases or use translation apps right from the start.
✔️ Tip: Practice key phrases before you go. Tools like Google Translate and Duolingo can be lifesavers in the early weeks.
3. Banking and Bills Can Be Complicated
From setting up a local bank account to paying utilities or taxes, financial systems vary widely. It can take weeks to open an account or even longer to understand how bills are paid.
What expats wish they knew:
That managing finances abroad isn’t as straightforward as at home. Some systems are cash-heavy, others fully digital, and many require local ID or proof of residence.
✔️ Tip: Ask your relocation provider or employer about local banking options before you arrive.
4. Healthcare Systems Are Very Different
Accessing healthcare abroad isn’t always as convenient or affordable as you’re used to. Some countries require private insurance for non-residents, and processes can vary significantly.
What expats wish they knew:
That public healthcare may not cover them right away, and emergency services may be slower or more expensive than expected.
✔️ Tip: Secure international health insurance and learn how the local healthcare system works before you need it.
5. You Might Miss More Than Just the Food
It’s easy to say goodbye to hawker stalls, kopi, or familiar snacks—but many expats find themselves missing the small comforts of home, like local TV shows, holidays, and the ease of Singlish conversations.
What expats wish they knew:
That nostalgia hits in unexpected ways, and it’s okay to miss the small things.
✔️ Tip: Pack a few comfort items and join local expat groups to share experiences (and maybe a pot of laksa).
6. Homesickness Doesn’t Mean You Made the Wrong Choice
Missing home, family, or your old routine is completely normal and it doesn’t mean you’re failing at expat life.
What expats wish they knew:
That even seasoned travelers can feel lonely or out of place when the excitement fades.
✔️ Tip: Stay connected through regular video calls, create routines, and explore local hobbies that bring you joy.
7. You’ll Spend More Than Expected During the First Few Months
Between deposits, temporary housing, unexpected fees, and buying essentials (like furniture, SIM cards, transport passes), expenses add up quickly.
What expats wish they knew:
That budgeting for the move is only half the battle; the real spending happens during the settling-in phase.
✔️ Tip: Set aside an “adjustment fund” to cover at least 2–3 months of extra expenses.
8. Finding Community Takes Time
Making new friends abroad can feel awkward at first. Locals might already have established social circles, and cultural differences can create barriers.
What expats wish they knew:
That it’s normal to feel out of place in the beginning—but the community is out there.
✔️ Tip: Attend expat meetups, join local classes, volunteer, or connect through shared interests to build new relationships.
9. Not All Relocation Services Are the Same
Some moving companies offer only packing and shipping. Others, like CM Relocation, provide end-to-end support including customs clearance, temporary storage, documentation help, and expert advice on what (and what not) to bring.
What expats wish they knew:
That choosing the right relocation partner can save you time, stress, and money.
✔️ Tip: Work with a FIDI-accredited mover who understands international standards and has experience handling every part of the journey not just the boxes.
10. You Will Change—and That’s a Good Thing
Living abroad challenges you in ways you can’t predict. Your habits, values, and worldview may evolve and that’s part of the growth.
What expats wish they knew:
That the process of adjusting doesn’t mean losing who you are; it means expanding who you can become.
✔️ Tip: Embrace the changes. Journal your experiences. Celebrate your wins, whether big or small.
Moving abroad is a big step and no amount of planning can prepare you for every twist and turn. But listening to those who’ve gone before you can help you navigate the unknowns with more clarity and confidence.
Whether you’re relocating alone, with your family, or through your employer, CM Relocation is here to guide you every step of the way—from packing and shipping to settling in and finding your new rhythm abroad.
Ready to start your expat journey on the right foot?
Partner with CM Relocation today and get the expert support you need before, during, and after your move.